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The Dark Origins Of Valentine's Day

By Arnie Seipel
NPR
Sunday, February 13, 2011

Valentine's Day is a time to celebrate romance and love
and kissy-face fealty. But the origins of this festival
of candy and cupids are actually dark, bloody -- and a
bit muddled.

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A drawing depicts the death of St. Valentine -- one of
them, anyway. The Romans executed two men by that name on
Feb. 14 of different years in the 3rd century A.D.

Though no one has pinpointed the exact origin of the
holiday, one good place to start is ancient Rome, where
men hit on women by, well, hitting them.

Those Wild and Crazy Romans

From Feb. 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of
Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then
whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just
slain.

The Roman romantics "were drunk. They were naked," says
Noel Lenski, a historian at the University of Colorado at
Boulder. Young women would actually line up for the men
to hit them, Lenski says. They believed this would make
them fertile.

The brutal fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which
young men drew the names of women from a jar. The couple
would then be, um, coupled up for the duration of the
festival -- or longer, if the match was right.

The ancient Romans may also be responsible for the name
of our modern day of love. Emperor Claudius II executed
two men -- both named Valentine -- on Feb. 14 of
different years in the 3rd century A.D. Their martyrdom
was honored by the Catholic Church with the celebration
of St. Valentine's Day.

Later, Pope Gelasius I muddled things in the 5th century
by combining St. Valentine's Day with Lupercalia to expel
the pagan rituals. But the festival was more of a
theatrical interpretation of what it had once been.
Lenski adds, "It was a little more of a drunken revel,
but the Christians put clothes back on it. That didn't
stop it from being a day of fertility and love."

Around the same time, the Normans celebrated Galatin's
Day. Galatin meant "lover of women." That was likely
confused with St. Valentine's Day at some point, in part
because they sound alike.

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Perry-Casta-eda Library, University of Texas

William Shakespeare helped romanticize Valentine's Day in
his work, and it gained popularity throughout Britain and
the rest of Europe. Shakespeare In Love

As the years went on, the holiday grew sweeter. Chaucer
and Shakespeare romanticized it in their work, and it
gained popularity throughout Britain and the rest of
Europe. Handmade paper cards became the tokens-du-jour in
the Middle Ages.

Eventually, the tradition made its way to the New World.
The industrial revolution ushered in factory-made cards
in the 19th century. And in 1913, Hallmark Cards of
Kansas City, Mo., began mass producing valentines.
February has not been the same since.

Today, the holiday is big business: According to market
research firm IBIS World, Valentine's Day sales reached
$17.6 billion last year; this year's sales are expected
to total $18.6 billion.

But that commercialization has spoiled the day for many.
Helen Fisher, a sociologist at Rutgers University, says
we have only ourselves to blame.

"This isn't a command performance," she says. "If people
didn't want to buy Hallmark cards, they would not be
bought, and Hallmark would go out of business."

And so the celebration of Valentine's Day goes on, in
varied ways. Many will break the bank buying jewelry and
flowers for their beloveds. Others will celebrate in a
SAD (that's Single Awareness Day) way, dining alone and
binging on self-gifted chocolates. A few may even be
spending this day the same way the early Romans did. But
let's not go there.

More at:

http://www.npr.org/2011/02/14/133693152/the-dark-origins-of-valentines-day

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Aren't you glad that india has instead adopted the usual expressions of
love in this widely observed day devoted to it?

When jay stevens,aka dr. jai etc. was married, he as an american no doubt
exchanged valentine gifts with his american wife.

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